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10/23/2008

random harmless rant

do you know one thing i hate the most about indonesian tradition?
yepp... it's the so-called 'arisan keluarga' tradition.. to translate it in english, 'family gathering' (?)..
but i don't even think the term 'family gathering' do much justice on how much a nightmare 'arisan keluarga' can be..
though it's written 'family', do you know how complicated a family tree can go? and how far for the branches can be considered not part of the tree? we may aswell call it 'a gathering of a bunch of people you don't even know'.. for real! in 'arisan', you cud be introduced to the brother-in-law of the sister of the cousin of your grandma.. okay, that's random, but believe me, that happens (somewhere)..

for a fact, 'arisan' can have more awkward moments than any normal person (who never been to arisan, of course, duh!) ever experienced in his entire lifetime..
and appearently, if you're the host, the probability that the akward moments happened to you is much much higher..
plus, if you're the antisocial daughter of the host, the probability can be estimated to 100%..

scenario example
antisocial daughter : *mojok berusaha nyamar jadi kipas angin*
host : eh, kamu disitu tho! sini, mama kenalin sama itu anak-anaknya oom x..
antisocial daughter : *no idea who that is*
host : *shove her daughter to a bunch of unidentified people* nih, kenalin nih...
unidentified people : *spontaneously glare at the antisocial daughter*
antisocial daughter : *awkward smile* eh, iyya.. saya..
unidentified people : *still glaring*
antisocial daughter : *liat kanan kiri*
host : *suddenly vanished*
unidentified people : *still glaring*
(note : not that it ever happened to me though *cough* *cough*)

bottom line is...
if you did read my blog, and by now you haven't figure out that i'm not exactly a people person, then maybe i'll stressed on it more, I HATE PEOPLE.. well... maybe, not people in general, cause i love my friend, i do.. the thing that i hate is actually TO INTERACT WITH OTHER PEOPLE (there! i put it in caps so you'll see it clearly)..
because you know what people do? admit it or not, when a person see another person that they don't know well, the first thing that person do is judge...
yupp.. judging other people is what we do every single second.. it's like first line of our main program is 'judge people in front of you ;', and it keeps on looping back to that instructions line...
and yeah.. that's my problem... i hate being judged by people who don't even know me...
so, because being judged is somehow inevitable, my strategy? i'll just straightly hate life instead...
but til now, can't confirm that its the most effective strategy yet...


oh yeah... according to blogger, this is my 100th post!
i should be celebrating! OR NOT... because i'm lazy... simple...

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